An Opportunity Lost At the Table of Brotherhood and Sisterhood

An opportunity to sit down together at the “table of brotherhood” (and sisterhood) at a local high school, Mother of Mercy, recently was lost because of outcries from a few who missed the larger and more important messages of peace, and justice and interfaith understanding. Earlier in their efforts to find common ground, Catholic and Muslims students were seeking ways to expand their own learning of each others' religious traditions by breaking the traditional Ramadan fast with a shared meal. Regrettably, that particular meal was never prepared.

In one of the most critical moments in his life, the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. guided us with his words from The Strength to Love (1963), when he wrote “The ultimate measure of a man (or woman) is not where he (she) stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he (she) stands at times of challenge and controversy." In his honor, a stone monument stands in our nation’s capitol as a reminder to all of us and generations to come that justice and peace aren’t easily attained.

BRIDGES for A Just Community has stood with the greater community to bring voices to the voiceless, and as a mediator and advocate when communities and people find themselves on opposing sides of important social and human rights issues. From our early work under the name of the National Council for Christians and Jews to the evolving inclusive efforts as the National Conference for Community and Justice, BRIDGES for a Just Community (our new corporate name) continues to work quietly, behind the scenes, and when necessary, visibly and publicly as a convener to bring together people with varying points of view to seek and find common ground. We have a long, rich and proud history of human relations work in the Greater Cincinnati community.

Yet, our work is far from complete. BRIDGES recently partnered with more than a dozen like-minded organizations to plan an upcoming community-wide commemoration of the tragic events of September 11, 2001. This group, which includes the Council on American Islamic Relations (CAIR-OH) and the Archdiocese of Cincinnati – are working together, along with the other 14 organizations to “remember, unify and hope.” Amidst the effort to focus on the events of 9/11, a smaller disruption of unity occurred when a student-led opportunity to come to the “table of brotherhood and sisterhood” was lost.

The high school students who wished to simply eat together and learn from one another was a courageous act to achieve Dr. King’s dream. We are hopeful that the cancellation of the dinner at Mother of Mercy (although it was still held at a different location) will open dialogue rather than to slam the door on learning about differences.

Especially as we approach the observance of the many tender and unifying commemorations of 9/11, we hope that this episode will not prevent the students from losing hope to serve our community and our nation - together. For too long, we have asked young people to care about one another with their words AND their actions. Now, we must ask ourselves, will the school, the students, and the parents close their hearts and minds to others who worship differently? Will the students be too discouraged to care about one another? Will the barriers of misunderstanding and misinformation prevent important dialogue and community service from occurring? Will the communities that would have been served by these young, enthusiastic people suffer because of pressures outside of their control?

Our community is facing serious economic and social challenges that require every citizen to work together. We encourage the Archdiocese of Cincinnati and CAIR-OH to engage in constructive and respectful dialogues to heal and find common ground. We hope that everyone involved will stand together, even when it is uncomfortable, to set an important example of leadership, love and conviction modeled for all of us so many years ago.
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About BRIDGES for a Just Community, Inc.

BRIDGES for a Just Community brings people together to achieve inclusion, equity and justice for all who live and work in the Greater Cincinnati community. As the region’s leading human relations organization, BRIDGES’ vision is to create a respectful, equitable and welcoming community for all citizens through education, advocacy and dialogue. Formerly the National Conference for Community and Justice (NCCJ) of Greater Cincinnati, BRIDGES for a Just Community has served the region since 1944. For more information, call BRIDGES at 513-381- 4660 or visit online at www.bridgescincinnati.org.